Dh's uncle is staying a few weeks with us, long story, but he works with dh too. They are both plumbers, and yes sometimes they work in the sewer lines. Dh is extremely clean, his uncle, don't even shower once a week. I told dh how bad he smelled. His uncle tried to hug me one night and I almost gagged. I told dh that is unacceptable. Dh said he had a talk with him, but the guy doesn't care. Uncle is also an alcoholic, so now ds' s room smells like a musty old beer factory and raw sewage. Gag
I can't take it anymore.
On top of that, uncle has to pay rent. I work, dh works nobody stays hear for free. All we ask is 100 $ a week including food and bills. Uncle hasn't been able to pay that twice now.
What should i say? I don't want to be mean or rude