This is how I feel when DH wants to put the t.v. on downstairs while we have sex or w/e upstairs.
I feel like it's almost the equivalent to leaving her home alone. I'm not ok with it. Then he gets pissy because our sex life is scarce and predicable. Well... I'm not going to throw out my parental responsibility for a sex session.
Idk... do any of you do this? How do you keep your sex life interesting?
I do A LOT for him sexually that I don't enjoy, even sometimes hate doing. I worded that totally wrong; I don't hate having sex with him. It's quite enjoyable. There are a few things I don't enjoy doing. is what I should've said. I have tried almost everything he has wanted to try. I actually can't think of anything I've shut down. Other than when he "jokingly" mentions a 3-some. Obviously it's something he wants to do. Too damn bad. Should've thought of that before we got married. I don't share, period.
I'm just not sure what we can do to spice up our sex life while still caring properly for DD. I'm not going to ask somebody to wacth DD so we can do it. Lol. I do think we need a designated date night but that will stll make things predictable.