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I feel if you Abort

Anonymous
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Because the baby was not the sex you wanted or if you use abortion for birth controle


Then you should not be able to adopt another baby
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:17 PM
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TSNDDY
by Ruby Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:18 PM
Why? A born child still needs a family
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Sailor_nena
by Gold Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:21 PM
*gives cookie
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Laura1427
by Platinum Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:22 PM

I'd like to hear the logic behind that view, if you don't mind sharing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:23 PM
Your allowed too have your feelings.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:24 PM
I'm sure there is plenty of people who can't have kids and want to adopt who have never aborted


Quoting TSNDDY:

Why? A born child still needs a family

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:27 PM
Ok like that post *i will abort if its not a girl* she says if its a boy they will abort and adopt a girl or 2

I feel that in that case she should not be able to adopt the girls because she killed a baby (remember she would be around 20-21 weeks pregnant) because it was a boy and shows that she has no humanity


Quoting Laura1427:

I'd like to hear the logic behind that view, if you don't mind sharing.


shell3m
by Shell on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:32 PM

While I believe every woman has the right to choose what she wants to with her body.....I do not agree with using abortion for the reasons you stated.  I have 3 boys and I'm preg. with my 4th...I wanted a girl so bad I'm still crying (getting better though) but I would never get rid of this baby boy just because I didn't get what I wanted like a toddler throwing a temper tantrum.  Not sure about the adopt thing though....if you did something stupid while you were young should you still be punished as you get older and smarter?  mmmmmmmm not sure what to say about the adopting part.

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thecoffeefairy
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:35 PM
Aborting because you are unable to care for a baby, the fetus has defects, ect is not the same as not liking the gender. I don't like gender preferences but should still be legal.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:37 PM

I feel that it's cruel to bring an unwanted child into the world and just as cruel to bring one into the world that you can not support  yourself.  We all have our feelings.

TSNDDY
by Ruby Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 4:37 PM
Then why are there kids without homes waiting to be adopted?

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sure there is plenty of people who can't have kids and want to adopt who have never aborted




Quoting TSNDDY:

Why? A born child still needs a family

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