No you may not force her to abort. No you may not kick her out. SHE IS STILL YOUR DEPENDENT. You are now required to raise her and her kid (your granddaughter). No you may not treat her like a child and allow her to continue to have sex. Yes you must accept that she is now 13 and all grown up. Suck it up butter cup!
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I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.
It's wrong to be a bully with one exception. It's ok to bully those you THINK are a bully.