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What would/did you do if/when...you want another child, but your spouse does not?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:34 PM
We are both happy with being one and done
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KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:34 PM

 .. I guess there'd be no children.    Going behind a spouse's back for a child that he/she didn't want is a sure way to end a marriage.

But my tubes are tied, luckily he and I agreed that 3 was good.

                         


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:35 PM
not have more?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:36 PM

what would there be to do? he doesn't want another kid...end of story. if its not mutually agreed upon, it's not happening. sure it sucks but it is what it is.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:36 PM
I wanted another, he went behind my back and got fixed..

I don't know how it would go the other way around..
Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:36 PM

 I would not have another one.  More children than one partner wants causes resentment that I am not willing to deal with. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:37 PM
I'm happy with our three but my hubby wants another. We have talked about and he understands how I feel so we have decided to wait a year and see how we each feel about it then.
VannaMae307
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:37 PM

We have already decided we are not having more than 1, so that situation wouldn't arise. Hypothetically I would just not have another baby, I suppose.

armywifey26
by Krissy on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:37 PM

We are in that predicament right now. My DH wants to try for another one in a couple of years. I do not 

New2011Mom1991
by on Apr. 4, 2013 at 9:37 PM

Thats how it is right now, but hes the one that wants another, and I dont really want another one. I guess when we finish college we will figure it out if I will suck it up and have another, or just say "no" to him for another.

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