.. I guess there'd be no children. Going behind a spouse's back for a child that he/she didn't want is a sure way to end a marriage.
But my tubes are tied, luckily he and I agreed that 3 was good.
There is no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one.
what would there be to do? he doesn't want another kid...end of story. if its not mutually agreed upon, it's not happening. sure it sucks but it is what it is.
I would not have another one. More children than one partner wants causes resentment that I am not willing to deal with.
We have already decided we are not having more than 1, so that situation wouldn't arise. Hypothetically I would just not have another baby, I suppose.
We are in that predicament right now. My DH wants to try for another one in a couple of years. I do not
Thats how it is right now, but hes the one that wants another, and I dont really want another one. I guess when we finish college we will figure it out if I will suck it up and have another, or just say "no" to him for another.
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