See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
last year me and my df moved into our first apartment together, i was/still am responsible for all the cleaning because i only have to work 5 hours a day everyday(df works 10 hours a day except sundays its his day off) well now im pregnant and im severely anemic,my levels are 7.8 instead of 13 like they should be and no matter how much iron i take it never rises so im always worn out....anyway so before work i clean the house top to bottom, pick up clothes, mop the kitchen, vacuum the bedrooms, and sweep the rest of the floors, if something is out of place i put it back in the place its supposed to be. now iv set up the nursery already (the crib,changing table,dresser that sort of stuff, its all cherry wood so its pretty gender neutral) and i have a box of baby wipes my friend gave to me....i use them for stains on the carpet and it gets them right out, so last night df gets home and decided he didnt like where i had anything in the house and rearranged EVERYTHING, this morning when i woke up i couldnt find my hair brush...it was under the bathroom sink,i couldnt find my ring, he threw it in a box on my book shelf,and of course when i spill chocolate on the carpet he friggen HID the baby wipes and it took me an HOUR to find where he friggen hid it. he came home early and i was already annoyed, i had just finished looking for the baby wipes and i was now putting things back where i know where they are so i dont have to search the damn apartment for things...he starts going in behind me and rearranging things to the way he likes it.....and i snapped and yelled at him "quit fucking touching everything!!! i have things in places where i know where they are, YOU even know where everything is when i have everything in the places i put them, the house isnt fucking dirty QUIT COMING IN BEHIND ME AND FIXING SHIT TO THE WAY YOU LIKE IT.we cant find shit when YOU clean, LEAVE IT ALONE!" he just gave me this stupid look put everything back the way i had it and went to play video games......i havent talked to him at all after that today
ugh.....i honestly dont feel bad for what i said to him,i feel bad for yelling at him though, it just got so annoying that i couldnt find a damn thing every time he cleaned/rearranged everything