See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Before I found out I was pregnant, I was working as a temp at a factory. My DF was too the same factory.
Well, I was doing well, until my last day...they put me on a machine I have never been on before, and was in the bathroom throwing up the whole time! *I didn't know I was pregnant*
Well after I wasn't called back, I found out I was pregnant. **DF was kept on and now has been there almost 2 years now.**
Well when we found out, I was crying but he was completely calm.
Flash forward to almost the end of my pregnancy:
He was great, and supportive! And he talked about how much he would be around the baby!
Well, she is now 13 months...has given her a bath TWICE in her lifetime. And spends most of his time on a damn video game.
But he's a complete SHEUVENISTIC PIG *SP?* He was not like this until after I had the baby and we moved into our own place.
It's like because he works he feels like all he has to do is come home for work and thats it!
I am a stay at home mom and IM PERFECTLY HAPPY WITH IT!
Just not happy with the fact that he excpects our daughter to be 100% MY RESPONSIBILITY!!
When it's diaper changing time we have to "take turns" thats the only way I could get him to do it!
But whenever it's his turn...he whines and bitches about how all I do is sit on my ass and do nothing!
Well, our daughter was 3 months old when we moved in, and i breastfeed...it's kind of hard not to have to sit down to breast feed!
Im still breastfeeding, so I sit down to BF. But I do cook, and I do clean, now..I don't clean EVERY day. I clean every other day. and it does look like a hell hole a lot when hes home because shes awake destroying everything!!
Well...anyway I'm sorry its long...But I gotta know how i can convince my asshole to go back to being sweet.
**And when I tell him to step up and take care of our DD he says he is. (He thinks making the money is good enough for her**...its not.
Am i the ONLY one whose man turned into an ass when the baby was born?
*(We are 21)