Well my mom called yesterday and Sammi answered so she assumed I was working. Then she stopped by today to drop something off and saw her again and asked me why she's here if I'm not out or doing work. So I explainedthat dh felt better with me having some extra help with the kids and house things since the dr said I need to be more careful and take it easier. She rolled her eyes and told me that I'm being a princess and overly dramatic. That when her water broke with my brother she was on her hands and knees scrubbing the kitchen floor and she kept going to finish then got up and called my dad to take her to the hosp. Yeah ok. She said I'm being lazy and I'm not the first woman to get pregnant and have other kids and on and on and on.
What is her issue? Who cares! I didn't do this with either of the others because I was Fine. I'm having a tougher time around this time. It's not like I've hired a full time nanny and if I had who cared. I explained that the dr is worried about my blood pressure and that he said I need to ease up and she said drs today are overly cautious and ill be fine and don't be so lazy.
I told my husband what she said and he gave me a typical "Brooklyn" answer. " oh yeah? she has a problem witj it? well tell your mom she can go fu..." i cut him off lol. I personally think she is being way unsupportive and negative
***updated ***. This morning I was having migraines and blurred vision and felt very weak. We called the dr and he had me see his associate who has Saturday hours. Due to the pre-eclampsia bringing my blood pressure higher I'm now on bed rest until further notice or delivery. My mom called my cell phone and my husband answered and said I was at the dr and would call her back when we got home. I did and just told her what the newest was and said I'd be fine. She said she had no idea it was that severe and admitted maybe she was giving me a hard time. She also said if I'd like her to come up and help out she would. For now I declined. She did offer to come when I have the baby to stay with my other 2 at home when I'm in the hospital which I agreed would be a good idea. I decided to pick my battles and accept her somewhat apology and let it go, knowing that I'm just doing what's right for my family.