My son since he was 2 would get boners if he saw beyonce or shakira or any other sexy, scantely clad woman on tv. So, no more music videos...
Then hes always been very interested in girls. He wants to play with the girls in the park more then the boys, he wants girls toys so the girls will have more of a reason to play with him, he stops me in the street to tell me "wow mommy did you see her, shes beautiful"
I started telling him about going into 1st grade next september.. his first and only question was "mommy how do i get a girlfriend in 1st grade"
He seen the girl up stairs (shes in her 20's) out in the front of the building with her ipod and she was dancing.. i catch him in the hall staring at her... since then hes had the only crush on her
hes in bed and calls daddy, i go in and tell him daddys busy what the matter.. he tells me he had a dream but he can only tell daddy.. i tell him daddys busy just tell me.. he starts to tell me that he had a dream about shakira..then stops and tell me to get daddy.. i get daddy.. turns out he had a dream about shakira taking off her clothes... what the frick kid!! you are 5... I stopped letting him see shakira videos a long time ago. This kids is serious about females.. I never in a million years thought i would have to have the bird and the bees talk with a 5 year old... goodness me, god help me when he becomes a teenager
I dont know where he gets it from. We dont allow sexual explicit things on the tv.. not even music videos.. He sees me and his father affectionate but just hugs and quick peck kisses.. once in the blue dh will steal a smack on the booty if im bending over, like over the oven.. but thats it.
Is it normal for boys his age to show sexual attractions to females already?
on Apr. 5, 2013 at 11:03 PM