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I don't fu**ing care if he has mental issues! control him!

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Dd and I went in mommy daughter day today. Went and got or hair and nails done, toes then shopping. I didn't want to cook so dd and I went out to dinner at a local restaurant. We were there maybe ten minutes before this boy(maybe 12) started to scream and make noises while his mom barely gave him any attention. Then he gets up(she's slowly walking behind him) and pulls dds(4) hair. And he pulled it hard! I tell the woman to watch her child and she tells me "it's not our fault! He has a mental disorder. We're sorry! "fine. No big deal right? He does it a second time and this time dds head jerked back because he pulled it so hard. Dd starts crying and when she starts crying, he freaks out. I go to cradle my daughter and this woman gives me a fucking death stare like we've done something wrong. Control you're fucking kids you fucking idiot and this wouldn't happen!

So i tell her just that. Control your fucking kid or keep him at home! We get out things to leave and their son is having a melt down. He's throwing stuff and everything. The father is ignoring it and the mother is calmly rubbing his back. Ugh!
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:08 AM
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chikaboombeads
by Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:41 AM

Exactly! I am great at tuning noise out...but my bitch flag will flap in the wind the second my kid is assaulted!


Quoting Anonymous:

My tolerance let when my daughter was touched. If he was just having a meltdown at their table, he would have been ignored

Quoting chikaboombeads:

I try to be tolerant...but if your kid physically harms my child...HELL NO!  I can handle noise, screaming, etc...but, I will confront you if you yank my kid's hair and make them cry.  



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:45 AM
Oh please, now a mother can't go out to dinner with her daughter and have the expectation that her daughter won't be attacked. I think this woman handled the situation very well because I can tell you I'm not sure what I'd do if a kid pulled my daughter's hair, not once, but twice.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:46 AM
Oh please, I'm autistic and even I know what he did deserved her anger as well as what his parents failed to do. He hurt a child not once but twice. His parents should have made him say he was sorry and escorted him out of the building until he regained his calm.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:46 AM

the only way they learn is for them to go out. not stay home. however the parents need to pay attention to their kids. this very easily could have been also a normal kid. even normal kids have meltdowns


Quoting Anonymous:

I didn't care that he was having a meltdown until my child was touched. If I couldn't control my child, we'd be at home. But she knows how to behave. If they can't control their child or at least keep him from harming others then he needs to stay at gone

Quoting Anonymous:

Well, what you are saying is this mother shouldn't take her kid out............what's the difference?  If you don't like things you encounter in PUBLIC, keep your ass at home and cook for your child.  I know someone that has a child with issues and people like you really piss me off with their keep them home or bust their ass attitude.  If you have not walked in a parent's shoes of a special needs child then keep your fucking mouth shut.............I agree, I think you and a lot of other people are judgemental bitches.

BTW, no the child was not right for pulling your daughter's hair, but the rest of the meltdown was not your problem and again, if you don't like what you might encounter, stay the hell home



Quoting Anonymous:

So what you're saying is i have no right to go out? That i should expect for my child to be attacked? That i should have just smiled? Shut the fuck up you idiot!



Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.






Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:46 AM
Haha I said oh please in my reply right below you.


Quoting Anonymous:

Oh please, now a mother can't go out to dinner with her daughter and have the expectation that her daughter won't be attacked. I think this woman handled the situation very well because I can tell you I'm not sure what I'd do if a kid pulled my daughter's hair, not once, but twice.




Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:48 AM
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My child is special needs. Stop ASSuming people don't know what they're talking about. Special needs or not, I would never let my child hurt another child.

If someone in a wheelchair decided to be an asshole and run over my foot, yeah, I'd be pissed and say something. Being handicapped doesn't get you off in life. Running over a foot in a wheelchair can be accidental. Getting out of your seat, walking over to a 4yr old, and pulling their hair TWICE is not an accident REGARDLESS of any disability. Again, the child and parents need to take responsibility and keep the child from touching and HARMING others. Never Saud they shoukdnt go out, go ahead out to eat etc. But control them!

Quoting Anonymous:

Did you not read where I said what her son did to the OP's daughter was not right?  Obviously not..........again, I will say for those that have never had to deal with a child with a disability/mental issue, don't make the snide comments about the child or the parenting.  The parents deal with the issues the best they can but really pissed me off is the OP thinks the mother should keep the child at home but got pissed when someone else made a comment about keeping her daughter home and cooking.  THAT is totally wrong. You can't recommend someone keep their kid home and get pissed because someone tells you the same.

If a person in a wheelchair ran over your foot, would you say they need to stay home?  There's no difference really............a wheelchair over your foot or getting your hair pulled.  They are both assults.......no?  I swear some of the women on here half ass read comments and just live to stir the shit pot...........




Quoting Anonymous:

Her child isn't assaulting others. This all boils down to people not taking responsibility for their actions regardless their disability.



Quoting Anonymous:

Well, what you are saying is this mother shouldn't take her kid out............what's the difference?  If you don't like things you encounter in PUBLIC, keep your ass at home and cook for your child.  I know someone that has a child with issues and people like you really piss me off with their keep them home or bust their ass attitude.  If you have not walked in a parent's shoes of a special needs child then keep your fucking mouth shut.............I agree, I think you and a lot of other people are judgemental bitches.

BTW, no the child was not right for pulling your daughter's hair, but the rest of the meltdown was not your problem and again, if you don't like what you might encounter, stay the hell home




Quoting Anonymous:

So what you're saying is i have no right to go out? That i should expect for my child to be attacked? That i should have just smiled? Shut the fuck up you idiot!





Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.








Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:50 AM
Lol, that's funny.


Quoting Anonymous:

Haha I said oh please in my reply right below you.




Quoting Anonymous:

Oh please, now a mother can't go out to dinner with her daughter and have the expectation that her daughter won't be attacked. I think this woman handled the situation very well because I can tell you I'm not sure what I'd do if a kid pulled my daughter's hair, not once, but twice.






Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:50 AM
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I'm sorry but that other mothers behavior was not acceptable.i guess when he really hurts someone(not saying your dd wasn't hurt-she was & that really upsets me),shes just gonna say he has a "mental disorder".bullshit.that does NOT give him the right to harm others & it does NOT give her the right to brush off the behavior.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:56 AM
Yeah.wow.fuck you is all i can say.she has every right to take her dd out for meal without worrying about her daughter being assaulted by some asshole moms kid.control your mini-asshole if YOU want to be out.maybe its bitches like you who oughta check out the stouffers line of freezer meals.and fwiw,one of these mentally issued kids would lay one hand on my 4 year old & I'd be calling 911 pressing assault charges on the little snowflake.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'd love to see you in the Mothers position you judgemental biatch. You're not in her shoes and do not know the whole story or to what extent, you have NO right to judge her.

And if you don't want to encounter this in the future, maybe you should look into some Stouffers for your lazy nights.


TheLadyAmalthea
by Bronze Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 2:59 AM

Oh geeze. Not all moms use the "my son/daughter has a disability" excuse when they do something bad. My son gets punished when he does something wrong. I don't allow him to hurt his sister, like he does sometimes, and I certainly wouldn't let him go hurt another child! Though I have to say, my son is very well behaved for being 5 and nonverbal. He has autism. These moms you see who let their child run around all wild using the disability as an excuse give the rest of us a bad name :(

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