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Email Dh Co-workers?? Would you?

Anonymous
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Dh had an event that he worked last night and he rode in with 3 other people from his job. About 12:30 last night he stumbles in drunker then drunk. I'm so disappointed in him...
Anyway, I want to send a message to his co-workers (all lower ranking then him) to tell them how disappointed I am in their judgement to let DH drive home. It's only about a 15 minute drive and I know that one of the guys doesn't drink at all and was sober, yet they allowed dh to drive. What awesome friends huh. SMH.
Dh was also drunk (not as bad) on Friday night when he came in from working the club. I'm afraid my dh is turning into an alcoholic.

*edit*we are friends with the other people outside of work.
*so if they weren't co-workers and were just friends, wouldn't you expect them to take the keys and call a cab? Or give him a ride home?? I would never let my friends drive in his condition
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:12 AM
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owl0210
by Emerald Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:14 AM
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Don't do it or you will make things worse. You aren't their mother so deal with your husband.
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Kris_PBG
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:14 AM
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No way in hell I'd be with someone who drinks and drives.

Total deal breaker...

Have you spoken to your dh???????
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Wheepingchree
by Bronze Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:14 AM
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What exactly does he do? And no, I don't think it would be appropriate for you to do that. Talk to your husband.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:14 AM
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No, you should not be contacting anyone from your husband's job. It is not their job to babysit your irresponsible husband. Tell him to get it under control.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:15 AM

No. Stay out of it. JC.

thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:15 AM

That would be inappropriate, this is a problem that your husband can solve.

12345abcde54321
by Platinum Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:16 AM

nooo no no no no. do not email them.

clearlyme
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:17 AM
You aren't their mother or boss. You need to speak to your husband.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:18 AM
Media.
They all rode in the station vehicle from work to the event so after he had to drive his car home. I don't know why he didn't call me or a cab...


Quoting Wheepingchree:

What exactly does he do? And no, I don't think it would be appropriate for you to do that. Talk to your husband.

LeetjieJ
by Silver Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:18 AM
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Not appropriate.
As the 'higher ranking' person I would have said your dh needed to set the example rather than rely on others to stop him drinking/ get him home safely.
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