There was just a blow up with the XW who is trying to put a wall between 14SS and I by convincing him that I am the "good for nothing woman" who is just Dad's wife or maybe a taxi once in a while. When 14SS and 7SS are here they park their butts in front of the XBox while Dad goes to work and my 2 year old dances around trying to get their attention.
DH just basically sat 14SS down and said that pretty much 14SS and I couldn't be "friends" because this upsets XW and DH and 14SS don't want to hear XW bitch. Basically I'm supposed to act like 14SS doesn't exist until he is under our roof. And even then, if 14SS has a problem he is supposed to bring it to DH, not me.
But while DH is at work, I can watch the kids! Yay!!!!