When I die I want to be with my family...my mom..and eventually..long after me..my kids. My husband wants to be in his families plot. Alot of people think it's odd because married couples should want to be buried together... I also believe in the afterlife you are spiritually connected to blood family. I believe I will know my husband...but won't have the spiritual connection with him that I will my mom and kids. You have many loves in your life...but blood family is different..IMO.