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What I caught my Fiances Ex-Wife Doing!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I am at the bank doing my own thing, cashing my check ect.

I hear this women talking and I glance over to realize it is my Fiance's Ex Wife. Mind you she is with this other man, whom I've never seen before.

I now ease drop just to be nosey or what ever. I hate this women to begin with due to how she treats their Daughter.

I hear her tell the Bank Tell that she wants ex amount of money and that her Husband wants to do something else. The women wants proof because this mans name doesn't apear on the account. While I am listening she tells the Bank Teller to make sure that her name on the Account is Kaitlyn Walker and her Husband of 10 yrs Should show up as Daryl Walker.

Not only am I confused and hurt because this women is going by a different name and aparently has been married to this man for 10 yrs but what about my Fiance?

Him and his Ex were married from 1997 to 2011, seperated in the Fall of 2009. They were together from 1993 and married in 1997. 

I am now so confused and not sure if or what to tell my fiance. 

How do I tell the Man I love more then anything that his ex-wife has been going by a different name and suposedly has beenmarried to this other guy for 10 years.


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:47 PM
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AF2011
by Ruby Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:55 PM
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Ignore it. She's probably some crazy trying to pull of a scam or something

ninjakids
by Christina on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:57 PM
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If she is going by a different name etc, it sounds more like fraud to the bank.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:57 PM
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Holy crap bigamy!
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:59 PM

I am a caring person and the biggest part that is confusing is that she was suposedly married to someone else at the same time for 10 yrs. This women is wacked! But I am totally confused!

Quoting JanineDeer:

I would not even give her the time of day..................whatever she is up to, will catch up to her on it's own... she is "the past"..

And if she gets into trouble- well, then your hubby gets his kid full time???

anyway- don't even mess with it.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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It's not about moving on. If the OP's fiancé and his ex wife were separated in 2009, then the ex-wife couldn't have been married to the guy she was with at the bank for 10 years. UNLESS she were a bigamist. Only other option is she was lying to the teller.

Quoting mommy_me:

why would he care that his ex wife moved on?
KanPsMommy
by Gold Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 7:59 PM
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Why would it matter what name she's going by now? She's his EXWIFE for a reason.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:01 PM

Idk what a Bigamist is, so I really don't know. It wouldn't surprise me if she would be pulling off a scam

Quoting Anonymous:

It's not about moving on. If the OP's fiancé and his ex wife were separated in 2009, then the ex-wife couldn't have been married to the guy she was with at the bank for 10 years. UNLESS she were a bigamist. Only other option is she was lying to the teller.

Quoting mommy_me:

why would he care that his ex wife moved on?


armywifey26
by Krissy on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:01 PM
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this 

Quoting jillbailey26:

Could it be that she was lying to the teller?  


autodidact
by Snarknado on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:02 PM
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etc. not ect. (short for et cetera)

fiance's ex wife isn't capitalized, nor is husband, or account, or should, or man, or daughter, or fiance

man's

appear

He and his ex

woman - singular

women - plural

than, not then


LoveMyKBabies
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 8:05 PM
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I would have been like "Hey, (name I know her by) how have you been!?"

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