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really need advice...should i tell her??

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:07 PM
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Okay so I had heard rumors that there was a website of girls from my area (half dressed ... some naked) but never thought anything of it.

Then my friend found the link and found photos of herself on there. So I went on to try and report it and i notice a girl from my class is on there. She is barely dressed...but still dressed none the less.

I feel like I should tell her, however we dont really talk enough that i feel comfortable blurting it out to her.

Opinions? Should I tell her via fb message or in class...or just let it be.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:08 PM
Tell her to her face
melschlegs
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:10 PM

This.  If you're going to tell her something like that, I'm sure she'd rather have it said to her face.  I know I wouldn't want a paper trail, lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Tell her to her face


ninjakids
by Christina on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:11 PM
IM worried i might embarrass her more:(
I really Dont want to embarrass her further than she already is :(


Quoting melschlegs:

This.  If you're going to tell her something like that, I'm sure she'd rather have it said to her face.  I know I wouldn't want a paper trail, lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Tell her to her face


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melschlegs
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:13 PM

I don't blame you, but I'm sure she'd appreciate it in person, too, so she doesn't get the wrong impression.  On a completely different topic, they should have different fonts for different intents.  (Angry, sarcastic, sympathetic, etc.)

Quoting ninjakids:

IM worried i might embarrass her more:(
I really Dont want to embarrass her further than she already is :(


Quoting melschlegs:

This.  If you're going to tell her something like that, I'm sure she'd rather have it said to her face.  I know I wouldn't want a paper trail, lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Tell her to her face



Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:13 PM

Tell her. If your pics were on that site wouldn't you want to know?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:13 PM
What's the website?
gma12.1
by on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:16 PM

By telling her face to face you can make it private so that she is the only one that can hear it. On facebook it could be seen even in a private message you can't be to sure anymore. I would tell her face to face.

ninjakids
by Christina on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:17 PM
I would Thats what has me so torn. I started an email to her then cancelled it. IM just trying to think how i can get her alone since we only see each other in class

Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

Tell her. If your pics were on that site wouldn't you want to know?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:19 PM
Make a new email and tell her anonymously. Just be humble and sympathetic.

I wouldn't even begin to know how to bring that up to someone I don't know.
Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Apr. 7, 2013 at 9:21 PM

I'd try to catch her as she's leaving class and pull her aside. Ask if you can talk to her for a min and then tell her, and I'd also mention that one of your friends had pics on the site too so the girl doesn't feel singled out.

Quoting ninjakids:

I would Thats what has me so torn. I started an email to her then cancelled it. IM just trying to think how i can get her alone since we only see each other in class

Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

Tell her. If your pics were on that site wouldn't you want to know?


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