See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
DH is deployed and has been asking me for sexy pics. So last night I sent him a nice assortment. DH says he thinks I'm beautiful but I don't look as good as I wish because of my weight. I'm hyper-critical so the ones I sent were the best I could do.
My problem is, it shows he's seen them and I didn't get a freaking comment, smiley, nothing! I KNOW he has time because he's a fobbit. Makes me never want to send a pic again!
Just had to vent before I talk to him. I don't wanna be hurt and pissed off but hey, he hurt my pride. LOL So how have/would y'all deal with this and bring it up in a way that isn't going to turn into a fight?
The mother fucker. Nope he got them. His only comment was he didn't like my hair. It turned into a HUGE fight, I asked to change the subject and have something positive for us today but NOOOO, I hung up on him, and now I want to dye my hair either as red as this font or black and get white out contacts. Anything super drastic. It's MY hair. I've chopped in above my shoulders from the middle of my back because I had an ex tell me that I wasn't allowed. So Thank you ladies for being so supportive and encouraging. I just told him, "Well you're in luck. I still look the same in the dark."
Just for those late to the party....
1) This is one of my replies form within the post:
Thanks but I'm over it. Changed my mentality and I'm just going to wait until he gets back. Things are more difficult when we're far away so I'm going to try to take that into consideration and just try to keep the "us" together. I mean hell! He's deployed! What kind of bitch would I be if I let him being an ass destroy our marriage when he's not even here to work through things with me.
2) I'm now on Overly sensitive military wives for venting here. Nice to experience the "sisterhood"
3) I love him and support him, but you tell me which of you has never been pissed at dh and needed to vent.
So now it's updated. My marriage isn't "over". I'm not leaving my dh because he "doesn't like my hair". I was frustrated with both his initial lack of response and the subsequent negativity. Also I think HUGE fight means something different to y'all than I. ANY argument I have with my husband that doesn't end amicably is huge to me because he matters to me. So judge, laugh, sympathize and commiserate. Glad to be of some entertainment.