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im feeling uncomfortable

Anonymous
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I woke up around 3am and my husband was reading a book which he then somewhat discretely slid under the bed in a stretch/yawn motion like a kid trying to put his arm around a girl at the movie...after he went to work I snooped a but and it was still there just far enough back to not notice unless I was cleaning under it. Now. The book is about understanding and treating a woman's childhood sexual abuse. In it he's taking notes and marking passages. I just feel uncomfortable. I mean he knows some of my past but its not something we talk about really. I feel like I'm all of a sudden coming across as in need of help or something :/
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:14 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:18 PM
Thoughts?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:20 PM
It sounds like he is trying to understand your perspective better.
ilovemykids323
by Platinum Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:20 PM

 maybe he's just trying to understand more... not necessarliy help you but just understand???

bugsmama149
by on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:20 PM
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Honestly I think it's great. It shows that he loves and cares about you. It shows that he's actually trying to educate himself on this subject. Not many men out there would take the time to do that mama. I think you've got a good man there.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:22 PM

I think its great.  Put the book back where you found it and just move on.

catrig
by Platinum Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:24 PM

I think your husband is trying to be helpful.  Go him!

Jessica518
by on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:24 PM
I agree. Be thankful he loves you enough to try and understand


Quoting bugsmama149:

Honestly I think it's great. It shows that he loves and cares about you. It shows that he's actually trying to educate himself on this subject. Not many men out there would take the time to do that mama. I think you've got a good man there.


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Leissaintexas
by Platinum Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:24 PM

Aww, I think I just crushed on your hubby for a minute. I love a sensitive man! You should be proud and feel very cared for.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:29 PM
I probably sound like a jerk huh?


Quoting Anonymous:

It sounds like he is trying to understand your perspective better.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:29 PM
I suppose that could be it


Quoting ilovemykids323:

 maybe he's just trying to understand more... not necessarliy help you but just understand???


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