Last year SD wanted to go to a theme park for her bday so my boyfriend and his baby mom took her. Just them 3- no other kids. It was to give SD that one-on-one attention sort of speak. They all got annual passes.
It's SD's bday again and a couple weeks back bio mom says she is throwing SD a bday party. Cool. My boyfriend was planning on taking SD to the same theme park along with my dd and I.
Today the bm calls and I guess she says she wanted to go to the theme park. My boyfriend explains that he was taking me and my dd. by the way, SD was excited that the 4 of us were going.
They hang up and I kid you not, the phone rings not even 5 minutes later and it's SD. I hear his side of the conversation which went like this:
-No I'm not going to take [your aunt- BM's sister] with us.
-No I'm not going to take [your cousin- boyfriends side] with us. We're going with [my dd].
-I know she's your mom and she's throwing a bday party for you on her weekend.
-If she is going, that's fine but its my weekend with you. As of now it's no, but I'll think about it.
I've been living with my boyfriend and his kids for over 2 years. I know they love their mom but I hate that they love me when they're here with us, but when the go back to their moms, they act as if they don't like me at all. I completely respect their mom but I don't even know why because she doesn't respect me.
I'm so hurt and I don't know exactly why. It's not as if my boyfriend will break plans with my dd and I but seriously bio mom you expect him to?