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full of love empty in the bedroom

Anonymous
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OK keep reading and you hopefully will understand why I am posting anon
I have a serious question. Do you think it is possible to have a successful relationship if things are lacking in the bedroom? Here is a little back story. I have had flings when I was younger where it was all about sex and there was not any emotional gratification. I have also had a relationship that taught me that I need the emotional connection to be happy. I am now with an amazing man who is extremely affectionate with me always hugging and kissing doing nice things. When we are together we asleep curled together, even hugging him still gives me that connection. Only down side I am a very sexual person, I want him all of the time. He on the other hand is content only having sex once or twice a month. It drives me crazy. I have intense physical reactions to him but he is not the same. What is worse he is fantastic in bed. So ladies help me out. Do you think we have a chance?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 9, 2013 at 2:03 AM
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mrsrodgers0703
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 2:06 AM
I could've written your post myself. Bump!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:08 AM
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Thanks glad to know I am not alone.


Quoting mrsrodgers0703:

I could've written your post myself. Bump!!

firespurity
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:11 AM
Have you talked to him about it? And is there a middle ground like bumping it to 3 times a month? Has he said why he prefers to go do long between sexual encounters?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:11 AM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:11 AM
Bump
svolkov
by Emerald Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:14 AM
Seek couples therapy and talk frankly to him. Maybe he has a low testosterone issue? Has he seen a dr? Bc normal men always want sex imo lol at least in ny experience. Perhaps he has something going on
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SnapIt
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:16 AM
For such an affectionate person, he only wants it 2 times a month?
Hes good with that?

I find that strange
I would think being so affectionate, he would be turned on more often.
Could he be jacking off often?
Or with someone else?

How often do you see him?
Is this a long distance relationship?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:18 AM
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Have you let yourself go since you got together? Meaning you walk around mostly in sweats and t-shirts rather than putting a little effort into your appearance....Spruce yourself up and give him something to be turned on about. Men are visual creatures.....we women do have to put in a little effort even though most on here will say otherwise.  

spooky415
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:19 AM
i dont think your marriage will dissolve completely bc of it but i would probably start to feel resentful after awhile.
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ADC2005
by Bronze Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:20 AM
Same here
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