So me and my DH have not had sex in 2 months. Last night he throws it in my face that we haven't had sex and I told him well think about it there are typically 4 weeks in a month. You lately take a shower every two weeks now add in the fact that because of my IUD (Paraguard) my period last anywhere for about a week and a half to two weeks. Do the math. I told him it does not make me want to become intimate when you smell so bad. I can't keep telling you to wash your ass man so if you want more sex love yourself and wash your balls. So he got upset said fine I just wont have sex and I told him obviously all you are seeing is the fact that you are not having sex and yet I am telling you why. If it bothers you so bad I will buy you the best lotion I can find and you can f****** samurai yourself or just go have sex with someone else (Yeah I know I better be careful with what I ask for) He really got me upset because now he is making these comments in front of people so I just became fed up. Is there anything I can do to get him to improve on his hygiene?