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my heart is breaking

Anonymous
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I want another baby. I loved being pregnant, and I loved giving birth. Our ds is three, and I know he would make an excellent big brother. He needs a sibiling. I know that I am supposed to have more babies!
Dh won't give in. I have tried everything to convince him. He says it's b/c of money. We are doing great, so I don't see his point. I BF, and I want to do cloth. I still have most of ds' s babt stuff. It wouldn't be that hard on us.
I am debating on leaving him over this. I love him and our family with all my heart, but I can't deal with the thought of not having any more babies.
I have thought of getting pregnant on purpose, but I can't bring myself to do it, and he pulls out (on time) every single time.
We use withdrawl method, and I always jump his bones when I know I'm fertile. Its still not working.
Please help me! I need to get over this or get pregnant.
What do I do?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:00 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:00 AM
Bump
firespurity
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:01 AM
Have you told him this could be a deal breaker for you?
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hp2011
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:03 AM
You need to tell him it is important enough to you that you'll leave him for it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:04 AM
Not in a serious way. I said it joking around. He knows I really want this. We planned to have many when we met.

Quoting firespurity:

Have you told him this could be a deal breaker for you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:05 AM
That's probably a good idea. *sigh*

Quoting hp2011:

You need to tell him it is important enough to you that you'll leave him for it.
tarakay0417
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:07 AM
You really need to talk to him and tell him how important it is to you to have more babies.
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Cutenessmom
by Gold Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:07 AM

Did you ever ask him why he wants no more kids?

 

Kerannmer
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:10 AM

Maybe you should talk to him about a compromise. If it's about money, maybe make a financial plan and hold off for another year or two. Sounds like he's being responsible, knowing if he can support another child or not.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:11 AM
Its all about money! We have it, we are not struggling. We bbudget, but we have everything we need and want.

Quoting Cutenessmom:

Did you ever ask him why he wants no more kids?


 

SallyStitches
by Bronze Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:14 AM
Would having another baby make money tight, though?
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