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Hypothetical.. What would u do?

Anonymous
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Let's say you remarry, and ur DH's X is just not moving on with her life. She's telling the step-kids lies about their dad from the marriage & why they divorced. X is just about getting all the $$ she can from her former partner, and is vengeful(more than likely because she thought she would be the first to remarry)

Now there is a court battle coming up because the X refuses to settle anything in mediation(some of the things she all ready agreed to in their divorce decree & still refuses to do) it also might hypothetically have to do with Child Support being lowered.(BTW DH has never paid late, and the X gets a hefty amount, the alleged step kids are too old for C.S. and need to come off.. 

Hypothetically, the second wife and X don't speak. Maybe 5 times in 5 yrs. and were never "officially introduced" due to X claiming back then it was too painful (she wanted the divorce, told the DH to leave)..

Now, Hypothetically second wife has proof positive information that the X was involved in an affair while married to her husband. (she tries to make out like the happy homemaker, miss perfect, she never cusses, and is raising her kids in a Christian home "cough,cough".)Even tho X has been caught in several lies & hypothetical step kids lie to the dad.  Tho X has told step kids just the opposite and it was never true, this guy doesn't have it in him.

Hypothetically would u call X and ask her to meet you, & you tell her u have this info. & to keep it in mind when they go to court, because U have all 3 kids email address's(kids think X walks on water and never does anything wrong.(youngest is 15, not sure I'd send it to her).. Or would you just leave it alone?  We are talking about a woman who thinks she is never wrong about anything. 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:32 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:34 AM

Stay out.  She will probably tape you or worse, lie about what you talked about.

elkmomma
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:40 AM

Sounds like the current Mrs. is looking for permission to lower herself to the X's standard by using the kids and blackmail. 

Jessiejem
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:43 AM

Hypothetically, no . Leave it alone.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:48 AM

Hypothetically once written down and read, it does look like the current Mrs. would be stooping to the lower level of the X.. & Hypothetically, it more than likely wouldn't do any good.

This is hypothectically is for the DH to handle with the hypothetical step kids.


Quoting Jessiejem:

Hypothetically, no . Leave it alone.



Jessiejem
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:53 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

Hypothetically once written down and read, it does look like the current Mrs. would be stooping to the lower level of the X.. & Hypothetically, it more than likely wouldn't do any good.

This is hypothectically is for the DH to handle with the hypothetical step kids.

 

Quoting Jessiejem:

Hypothetically, no . Leave it alone.

 

 


 Hypothetically the current Mrs . is frustrated with the x's shenanigans , but should never stoop below the x :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:15 AM



Quoting Jessiejem:



Quoting Anonymous:

Hypothetically once written down and read, it does look like the current Mrs. would be stooping to the lower level of the X.. & Hypothetically, it more than likely wouldn't do any good.

This is hypothectically is for the DH to handle with the hypothetical step kids.


Quoting Jessiejem:

Hypothetically, no . Leave it alone.




 Hypothetically the current Mrs . is frustrated with the x's shenanigans , but should never stoop below the x :)

Hypothetically that sounds correct, and hypothetically your right. The current Mrs. knows also & has never before hypothetically stooped to the X's shenanigans.  :)


VannaMae307
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:17 AM

You are walking a fine line of blackmail, dear.

-_-
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:20 AM

I'd never email something like that to my husband's kids. That's childish. If the proof matters in court, that's one thing. But just to go 'seeeeeeee!!'. Yeah, how stupid.

jas_momof2
by アニメの雌犬 on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:20 AM

That's blackmail...  And illegal...

thenameshailie
by Emerald Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:24 AM

Blackmail is never a good idea. Let the courts take care of it, they will do what is best for the kids. 

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