Does your dh/so check your texts? Mine does it frequently. He doesn't have a reason to and I don't have anything to hide. I told him he could look at my phone any time just ask. But he does it while I am sleeping or in the shower. He hasn't really found anything he didn't like except that I am too nice to my ex husband because I say "lol" or "haha" when we talk and we only talk a few times a week about the children that we have together. Dh tells me every time he does it and apologizes. I don't really even get mad about him checking it. It just really frustrates and disappoints me and I don't get it! Anyone else have this problem?