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If you dated a father, would it matter to you if he was previously married to the mother of his child(ren)? HYPOTHETICAL

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Question: If you dated a father, would it matter to you if he was previously married to the mother of his child(ren)? HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING :-)

Options:

I would never date a father who was previously married.

I would prefer to date a father who was never married.

It wouldn't matter to me either way.

I would prefer to date a father who was previously married.

I would only date a father who was previously married.

I would never date a father period.


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Total Votes: 116

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Please post your reasoning behind your vote if you have time.  Thank you :-)

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:29 PM
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Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:30 PM
6

End of story.
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danie24
by Ruby Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:31 PM

 I would never date a father, period.

inspain
by Platinum Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:32 PM

As long as he'd played a significant role in their lives, since day one, and unhesitatingly contributed to their upbringing financially, I wouldn't care.  

But only if he had children from a SINGLE mother, not more than one.  

Mudfishzgirl
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:32 PM
The only way I would have dated someone with kids is if I knew for a fact he was supporting his kids and spending time with them.
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ajdahd13
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:33 PM

Yeah this. I hate saying that because I have kids, but I do NOT want to deal with another woman's child. 

Quoting Nicoleb9:

6

End of story.


RobsPrincess24
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:34 PM

It wouldn't matter to me either way. My husband was not married to his children's mother. He was married to two other women though, but he didn't have children with them.

alaskanewbie
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:36 PM
I married my husband who was easing his 2 sons from a previous marriage.
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jacsmama022
by Gold Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:36 PM
It wouldn't matter to me as long as he was involved in their lives like a father should.
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zeenah
by Zarah on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:37 PM

I dated 2 father's both had 2 children by different women. it doesn't matter to me either way.

Nichole0403
by Silver Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 3:37 PM
Didn't turn me off from my now husband. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage.
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