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He works late, then he comes home & you go to bed right away?
On the nights that my SO has to close at work, he has to stay until at least 12:30am.
Let's just say, I like to sleep, since DS is usually up at 7am, so I like going to sleep a bit earlier than SO does.
But SO gets really irritated if I go to bed when he comes home or soon after he comes home. He doesn't think I want to spend time with him.
Which, I do, but I need sleep...
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by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 10:54 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:21 PM
Why does he stay up until noon? Why does he get upset if he still hangs out with you in the mornings?


Quoting ShanesMommy2012:

Sometimes he doesn't even go to bed until around noon.



Quoting jamamama00:

Stay up with him. Then wake him up when you get up. That'll solve that.

ShanesMommy2012
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:22 PM
Because sometimes he wants to come home and just spend time with me. Instead he's left awake alone for at least 6 hours.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why does he stay up until noon? Why does he get upset if he still hangs out with you in the mornings?




Quoting ShanesMommy2012:

Sometimes he doesn't even go to bed until around noon.





Quoting jamamama00:

Stay up with him. Then wake him up when you get up. That'll solve that.

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aalmomma
by Bronze Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:22 PM
Dh doesn't get home til 1am every night. My kids get up at 830-900. I try to stay awake with him at least a couple hours. I don't work til 7pm and I can nap when my kids do so it's not a huge deal to me but if I'm too tired to stay up he gets upset, but not mad. Never mad.
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CuriousArentYa
by Platinum Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:22 PM

No I am a night owl so usually when he comes home he wants to go to bed and I want to stay up. I don't get mad at him at all. 

EvaTheDiva29
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:22 PM

no, id tell him to deal with it, and stop acting like a baby.

atm1979
by on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:24 PM
Take a nap...I hate when my SO doesn't come to bed with me...even if it's just til I fell asleep
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BeAmour
by Tonya on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:25 PM
Good, good. Make him stay up with the kids! When they get up, go to bed. He got what he asked for, you to stay up, so he can see the true reason why you go to bed when he gets home.

Quoting ShanesMommy2012:

Sometimes he doesn't even go to bed until around noon.



Quoting jamamama00:

Stay up with him. Then wake him up when you get up. That'll solve that.
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BeAmour
by Tonya on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:27 PM
Whaaaaat????

Tell him to pop some sleeping pills and go the hell to sleep. Problem solved.


Quoting ShanesMommy2012:

Because sometimes he wants to come home and just spend time with me. Instead he's left awake alone for at least 6 hours.



Quoting Anonymous:

Why does he stay up until noon? Why does he get upset if he still hangs out with you in the mornings?






Quoting ShanesMommy2012:

Sometimes he doesn't even go to bed until around noon.







Quoting jamamama00:

Stay up with him. Then wake him up when you get up. That'll solve that.

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