Since I've had my 3 kids, she's lived 4 hours away. She's getting older and decided to move closer about 2 months ago. She likes babysitting her grandkids and dd is the only one not in school so sometimes she'll take dd for a few hours during the day. Yesterday, when I picked her up, my mom had her neighbor over. Apparently the neighbor's sole purpose for being there was to change dd's diaper. My mom literally refuses and calls her friend if she needs to be changed. Even just pee. Mom said it makes her physically ill to do it. I'm not sure how you can have two daughters and six grandkids while refusing to change diapers, but I couldn't stop laughing!