So I've been talking to and seeing this new man since November. He told me from the very beginning that he was in an open marriage. I was okay with that because I was not wanting anything serious, just a new friend. We have a great connection. Anyway he works a lot and is going to school to get his masters. Also he is in the reserves and does drills on some weekends so we cant really see each other as much as we'd like to. His main job is actually what drew me to him. Its a very selfless occupation. We've hung out 2 times and we talk several times a week. We scheduled a "date" for next Friday(19). The problem is that I'm not 100% sure his wife knows. I feel a little guilty because I'm really attracted to him and we might kiss or "fool around" :( . its also weird that we had a date on the 29th and he sent me a text I never received. But he showed me a screenshot where it shows he did. I just thought he stood me up. My friend says me not receiving his texts for that day is a "sign" that we shouldn't go out because Hes married?
What do you ladies think? Would you take his word and go out still? Contact his wife?
For anyone who's interested, all three of us met up finally. It was a little awkward because she kept giving me these dirty looks. I just smiled at her and tried to be nice. It was confirmed that they are in an open relationship. We talked for a while and it turns out she's the one who suggested it, which surprised me. Then she began asking me questions about her husband and I's relationship. To be honest though, she's not a very nice person. Just rude in general to anyone and everyone. Her eyes do light up when her son is mentioned. I can tell they are both crazy about that little boy.
The date is definitely on for Friday. I'm looking forward to it and so is he. He keeps texting me saying how excited he is.