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Do you think he's being sincere?

Posted by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:07 PM
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My dh said that he wants to divorce BUT he'd like for us to start from 0, romantically speaking. Dating, being exclusive and eventually marry again, if all works well.

This sounds kind of strange to me. A part of me thinks that it just might work, but another part of tells me that its another one of his cop outs.

I haven't decided anything yet. Well, the divorce part is going to happen anyway. The rest, idk.

Advice?

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:09 PM

ridiculous

acbbsmama
by Silver Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:09 PM
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No way would I agree to that. If he wants to stay married and try and court you and get a fresh start that's one thing. To divorce then immediately try to regain a relationship is silly.
FL2AK
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:10 PM
That is just dumb.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:10 PM


it's a cop out. prepare yourself. sorry. :-(

LovelyMommy24
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:11 PM
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No, I do not. I think he's saying it so you don't make a huge deal out of it or take all you can get.
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kaybear123
by Gold Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:12 PM

I wouldn't agree to it. 

thenameshailie
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:12 PM

Start off fresh with out making it legal.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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Ah, so he wants all the perks of marriage without the responsibility. Sounds legit.
Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:12 PM

If he wants that, freaking stay married and go that route.  I say trust your gut.  It sounds like he is trying to circumvent some guilt by putting it off.  And then when things go sour, he can blame you, too, for failing to make it work.

Supervane
by Ruby Member on Apr. 11, 2013 at 11:13 PM
Don't fall for it
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