My bff is having an affair. Before you start bashing her, let me explain her situation. Back in 2011 her husband of 15 years had a stroke. It was bad. He was in the hospital for two months, then rehab for about 4 or 5 months. She stood by him through all that. Now he's home and she's his sole caretaker. She talkes him to all of his appointments, on walks, and does everything that needs to be done. Even bathes him and helps him use the bathroom. She's really wonderful and I wonder if I could do that for my own husband should the need arise. But I do know that once a week on Tuesday afternoons she meets a guy for sex. She says she has needs and that she ignored them for so long. She says its not only sex, but its the only time when its about her and how she is. I'm not sure how I feel and wish she hadn't told me this information. But it has been food for thought.
So is it ever ok to cheat?