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how often does your dh/so/df compliment you?

Anonymous
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I wish my husband made me feel beautiful! The only time I get compliments from my husband is when he wants a piece of ass.
Today I realized just how miserable I am, as I was hanging out with a friend and he was telling me that beauty is on the inside and I'm a very beautiful person!
Then he asked me why I stay with him if he makes me feel so horrible about myself, and honestly I stay for my kids :(
My husband used to make me feel like I was the only girl/woman in the world and now he barely noticed me...

Anyways enough about me, and my love problems.
How often does your dh/df/so compliment you?

I guess I should edit this to make it clearer, I don't like conflict, my abusive ex made me like a skittish dog, so I don't speak up like I used to. My husband used to compliment me daily, just like he used to bring me flowers for no reason, and then one day he told me that people who are happy, have got to be faking it, and with that the compliments stopped, unless he wants sex...
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:37 PM
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Mrs.Torres2566
by Mrs.T on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:38 PM

Everyday

Kortlynia
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:39 PM

daily

macysmom
by Platinum Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:39 PM
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NEVER. His excuse is that I should already know I'm beautiful.
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KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:39 PM

 I feel like this is a really important part of a relationship.. you've got to bring each other up!

Have you talked to him about this? Does he know you NEED to hear it? Men can be pretty dense..

 

                         


There is no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:39 PM
I'm sorry you know how I feel! :(

Quoting macysmom:

NEVER. His excuse is that I should already know I'm beautiful.
TugBoatMama
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:39 PM

A lot, lol. Sometimes he goes a little overboard.

Kimbyann
by Ruby Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:40 PM
I can think of one compliment in our 7years. Not exaggerating. Sometimes I feel the same way.
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spicy_n_sweet
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:40 PM
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Multiple times a day, every day.  Compliments are in regards to many aspects of myself, what I do, etc.

How do you feel about you? Do you feel you are beautiful? 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:40 PM

Rarely

Moe1521
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:40 PM
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He doesn't compliment me very often, but when he does I know it's from the heart
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