my mother causes stress with her life.
she causes stress with everyones lives. i love her but damn.
me and df just got done being stressed. we had a rough patch. now we are focusing on being stress free. the stress kills me. things were ok. until about 5 days ago. df and i have our own life. my mother had hers. i liked the less stressed time. well, my moms bf started going crazy. yesterday my brother moved back. in with my mom. then last night she called saying her bf wanted them to move out. today my brother comes to stay for a few days. ok. well about an hour ago she called me at work to tell me her bf raped her and she wanted to come to my house. fine. but now- in a matter of 3 days- i have my mom and my fucking 20 yo brother living with me. because i NEED the fucking stress. this is going to mess up df and i. i can see it. we are gonna get ruined from this shit. because where else are they supposed to go? how do i tell them no? DF is PISSED. i am too. help? advice?