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Make sure your sons know that all his options end at "OHHHHHH"!

Anonymous
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We all know about teaching our children about abstinence, safe-sex and birth-control.  BUT, have you/will you make the rules of the game perfectly clear to your son?  Will he know that all of his options end at "OHHHHHH!"?  Will you be honest about how often birth control fails and how commonly women lie about it to trap a man or his paycheck?  Will he know that she can say "Oops, I screwed up.  I'll get an abortion and absolve myself of all future responsibility", but that he is stuck paying for 18 years if he wants to absolve himself of all future responsibility and she disagrees?  Do you realize that many young men today mistakenly believe that they can just sign away their responsibility if they don't want the child and mate with that myth in mind?

What will you say/have you said?



*For the record, my son is still an infant and no, my DH doesn't pay child-support to anyone.  We only have children with each other.  I agree with all of the current rules in place.  I am simply advocating that the rules are clearly explained to everyone.  As a society, we tend to put more pressure on our girls in terms of pregnancy prevention.


Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:26 AM
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jbirdsladie27
by on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:33 AM

They both know and are fully aware.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:35 AM
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Are you the mom who wants to give her son a vasectomy for his 16th birthday?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:36 AM
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Hell no.


Quoting Anonymous:

Are you the mom who wants to give her son a vasectomy for his 16th birthday?



ashleyrenee24
by 2ne1 on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:37 AM
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I'm defiantly going to teach my son that. Biology is unfair and he can't control another person's body.
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almondpigeon
by Ruby Member on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:37 AM
Holy crap...someone actually said that?


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Are you the mom who wants to give her son a vasectomy for his 16th birthday?

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jbirdsladie27
by on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:38 AM
WTF??!!!!!!
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Are you the mom who wants to give her son a vasectomy for his 16th birthday?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:40 AM
Quoting jbirdsladie27:




Yeah, she wanted to bank his sperm so no girl could trick him. Very strange.
coleysmama
by Gold Member on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:40 AM
Yep. I've talked and talked and continue to talk about it. He's 15 and has been taught, supported and raised the right way. It's up to him to do the right thing in the end.
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MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:40 AM
I never really thought about it.
I do not handle this part of parenting my step sons.
And my son is only 3 months!
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jbirdsladie27
by on Apr. 20, 2013 at 8:41 AM
Strange is puting it mildly <•>_<•>

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Quoting jbirdsladie27:






Yeah, she wanted to bank his sperm so no girl could trick him. Very strange.
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