I found a credit card last night that I didn't know we had. All the charges were restaurants and bars. My husband does go out a lot but for the most part we use cash for that sort of thing so it doesn't add up too fast. I asked him about it today and he acted like he didn't know what I was talking about. I brought the account up online, which he left open, and showed him. He then tells me that he was trying to keep it a secret because it's a surprise for me. My 22nd birthday is coming up and he was going to give me a threesome. I had mentioned like a year ago that I never had one and it might be fun. He said finding the right girl for it is difficult and he doesn't take it lightly. He says he's buying girls dinner and drinks and interviewing them to see if they would be a good fit for us. I don't know what to believe right now. It sounds a little fishy, doesn't it? Am I being paranoid?