Im 19 and I have a 2month old dd. I get bashed everyday or get the "look" or rude comments from other moms because im either a single mom, dont breastfeed, bring my dd outdoors, im young and all this crap. The thing that they dont know is that I support my dd, im a makeup artist, im a single mom because I left an abusive relationship, I dont breastfeed because I had alot of vomplications when in the hospital and stayed 2weeks and my dd had complications too so we were never together so she got used to the formula milk and on top of that she was tongue-tied. I bring my dd outdoors with me because I have no dh or nobody at home to babysitt hr so I have to bring her with me. I have my own place and do everything for my dd. why the fuck do moms always have to judge when they dont even know my life? They only bash from looks. And they also judge because I dont "dress" like a mom, wtf is that suppose to mean? Now theirs a look for moms? ... If you're that type of mom, why do you do that?
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on Apr. 20, 2013 at 3:45 PM
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by Anonymous
on Apr. 20, 2013 at 3:48 PM
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All I can say to you is, one day those judgemental looks or words won't bother you as much and you can look back on all your life is and know you are an accomplished, responsible mother.
Keep on working sweetheart , you're doing it all right!
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I'm tired of nonparents being pissy in the workplace
Would you ever have kids with a man who graduated with $200,000 in student loans?
- KariC33
on Apr. 20, 2013 at 3:45 PM