That was awkward...

My son had a friend spend the night. They were up late playing video games so they slept most of the afternoon. I heard the tv go on a little bit ago so I figured they were up so I brought up donuts. When I opened the door my son was still asleep and his friend was watching porn (soft core, something he found ON DEMAND I am sure) and masturbating. I just closed the door and walked away. He came down a minute ago to make a sandwich and I can't even look at him...so awkward... 

OH BTW the boys are 17. 

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

EW!

Quoting Anonymous:

He's almost legal.

[Anonymous 3]

Quoting Anonymous:

Ahh baloney. By that age guys know others do it too.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

I probably won't ever speak of it again. But this boy comes over a lot and I don't think I can ever look at him again...

Quoting Anonymous:

I owuld find it very odd for that boy to be masturbating in my son's room with him present. Not sure I would address it though.

Then talk to your son. Tell him to tell his freind it is totally NOT cool to look at porn and jerk off in his bedroom. in fact if you tell your son odds are good he won't WANT that kid back over!

I just asked my son-who will be 17 in August. he said he would consider it very rude and disrespectful; of any of his freinds to jerk off while lying in his bedroom with him present.

Actually he said-Gross Mom who does that kind of shit?

[goodmama85]

Um wow extremely awkward.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

I will never speak of it again.

Quoting livelaughlov26:

I'm sorry I would be too. :S it will be awkward now. At least he doesnt know you saw. That would be worse

Quoting Anonymous:

I wish I could laugh, I am scarred for life.

Quoting livelaughlov26:

This made me laugh. Haha.

[junebaby11]

Id knock even if its my house everyone needs privacy

[handy0318]

Why should you knock when your son has a 17 year old friend staying over... Oh, maybe because you wouldn't want to walk in on him changing or something...

Sounds like he's a fairly normal 17 y/o... I'd pretend nothing happened and never say a word about it.

Quoting Anonymous:

It's my house, why should I have to knock? And who masturbates in someone else's house while their friend is sleeping next to them?

Quoting Melissa_4:

Nothing to help.  He's 17, and you walked in on a moment when you should have knocked.  Get over it.  Boys masturbate.  Pretend you didn't see it, say nothing, and leave it alone.  You're not his mother.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Your son was raised right. Who actually does that?

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Ahh baloney. By that age guys know others do it too.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

I probably won't ever speak of it again. But this boy comes over a lot and I don't think I can ever look at him again...

Quoting Anonymous:

I owuld find it very odd for that boy to be masturbating in my son's room with him present. Not sure I would address it though.

Then talk to your son. Tell him to tell his freind it is totally NOT cool to look at porn and jerk off in his bedroom. in fact if you tell your son odds are good he won't WANT that kid back over!

I just asked my son-who will be 17 in August. he said he would consider it very rude and disrespectful; of any of his freinds to jerk off while lying in his bedroom with him present.

Actually he said-Gross Mom who does that kind of shit?

[livelaughlov26]

That is probably the best thing to do

Quoting Anonymous:

I will never speak of it again.

Quoting livelaughlov26:

I'm sorry I would be too. :S it will be awkward now. At least he doesnt know you saw. That would be worse

Quoting Anonymous:

I wish I could laugh, I am scarred for life.

Quoting livelaughlov26:

This made me laugh. Haha.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

He usually changes in the bathroom, the boys never change around each other. 

Quoting handy0318:

Why should you knock when your son has a 17 year old friend staying over... Oh, maybe because you wouldn't want to walk in on him changing or something...

Sounds like he's a fairly normal 17 y/o... I'd pretend nothing happened and never say a word about it.

Quoting Anonymous:

It's my house, why should I have to knock? And who masturbates in someone else's house while their friend is sleeping next to them?

Quoting Melissa_4:

Nothing to help.  He's 17, and you walked in on a moment when you should have knocked.  Get over it.  Boys masturbate.  Pretend you didn't see it, say nothing, and leave it alone.  You're not his mother.

[Cookie-kisses]

Well if your son comes down to breakfast like this. .. .You should be worried!