I have been married to a slob for 17 years. We have 7 children together. They are just like him because they see how he is and it just sucks. I'm so tired of being the only one that cares about a clean house. I'm not talking spotless, but take the damn trash out before its overflowing into the floor. I can't take it anymore. I just want to leave them in the pigpen they have made.