What terminology do you use for the anatomy of girls private area, when describing it to them? Does that make sense? Like today I was bathing my 3 yo, and I was teacher her how to bathe herself, as I feel that she is getting old enough to learn how to bathe her own self. She does pretty well so far, like washing her hair. So I go through and tell her.. OK now dont forget your knees or your face etc.. But when it comes to her girl area, Im not sure what to say.. I just point and say, "there too". But I know that some people say that using correct terminology is very important. I just don't know if I feel comfortable with using the V word with her. I mean its not actually that anyways. Its just that area. What do you say to your girls? Am I causing harm by not using correct terms?