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My kids were not invited to a kid event

Anonymous
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My dh's god daughter is having her first communion today. 

The mom called my dh and invited him and I. She even said call me back and let me know if you and wife can make it. There is a little party after the church 

I asked him to call her back and ask him if the kids were invited, but he didn't. He didn't even call her back and let her know that we were going. 

I don't really want to go if my kids are not invited. And he did not call to find out or to even confirm. 

What should I do? 

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:18 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:23 AM

BUMP!

shivasgirl
by Platinum Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:26 AM
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call her yourself, and why wouldnt your dh go if he was the godfather?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:27 AM
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Wow......

call her yourself or just don't go. I never understand women who can't go somewhere without their children
mommieof38829
by Platinum Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:27 AM
How old are your kids
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:28 AM


He is going. But I don't want to go because my kids were not invited. 

Honestly. I think she did it on purpose because we didn't invite her kids to our wedding 

Quoting shivasgirl:

call her yourself, and why wouldnt your dh go if he was the godfather?




Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:29 AM
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First Communion celebrations are for the family.  Why wouldn't your husband go!?  Unless your kids are il-behaved and would disrupt the Mass, I would have guessed that they were invited.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:29 AM


8 and 15. 

they most likely don't want to go lol but I just thought it was rude that she didn't invite them. My kids are apart of my husbands life and they should be included. 

Quoting mommieof38829:

How old are your kids



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:30 AM


He's going. Even though he didn't call and RSVP 

Im not going because my kids were not invited 

Quoting Anonymous:

First Communion celebrations are for the family.  Why wouldn't your husband go!?  Unless your kids are il-behaved and would disrupt the Mass, I would have guessed that they were invited.



MommyofJustin
by on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:31 AM
I say take them. Your going to. Church where kids are welcome and your kids are old enough to behave. Just go
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 9:31 AM

Wait a minute.  Are your kids NOT his kids?  If so, then that puts a little different perspective on it.


Quoting Anonymous:


8 and 15. 

they most likely don't want to go lol but I just thought it was rude that she didn't invite them. My kids are apart of my husbands life and they should be included. 

Quoting mommieof38829:

How old are your kids





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