Sil is pissed because im not going to be her maid of honor..apperantly im being selfish
i told her right away that i was not going to be able to afford a dress.
she told me id only need 300 dollars...well thats alot to me and dh but we talked about it and got that saved.
we went dress shopping. at a size 12 i am the largest member of the bridal party, second largest girl is a size 6. the dresses they were looking at scared me because what was looking good on them wasnt going to look good on me.
she ended up wanting a 300 dollar strapples dress. my first thought was 'oh shit'. i wear DDD bra and i was worried about keeping my boobs tucked away.
but i didnt say anything. i ordered my size. i paid for the dress and they came in last week.
sil then decided that she doesnt like the dress on me and that i should wear a different dress any way since id be the maid of honor.
the new dress she picked is 800 dollars and they wont take this dress backt...
theres no possible way for me to get that dress.
i explained it to her yet again.
she got pissed. she said that im just trying to make her wedding about me and that if i really loved her i wouldnt have a problem getting the dress. she then went on to say that its not fair for me to be like this when she cooperated during my wedding..
at my wedding sil couldnt afford a dress at all..i bought her dress and shoes to wear. and all she did was bitch about how ugly she thought it was...
im not trying to be a bitch but i cant afford this dress...