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When would you let your child sleep in the same bed as their SO?

Anonymous
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They are moved out and come over to spend the night with their SO, when can they sleep in the same bed? 18, 20, marriage?
Would it matter if they were 18 living together rather than 18 living separate?


*added question: what if your child was living with you, at what age would you allow their SO to sleep in their bed? Granted they are adults?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:47 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:49 AM
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by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:49 AM

When they are married.  Why would this even be a question?

Quoting Anonymous:

They are moved out and come over to spend the night with their SO, when can they sleep in the same bed? 18, 20, marriage?
Would it matter if they were 18 living together rather than 18 living separate?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:51 AM
I was just curious? My answer definitely isn't marriage.

Quoting Anonymous:

When they are married.  Why would this even be a question?

Quoting Anonymous:

They are moved out and come over to spend the night with their SO, when can they sleep in the same bed? 18, 20, marriage?

Would it matter if they were 18 living together rather than 18 living separate?


Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:52 AM

 In my house, when they're married!

robyann
by on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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I think once they are living together then they should be allowed to sleep together at our house. What difference would it make? They already sleep together in their own home. My ds and his finance are living with us for the next year to save money for the wedding and a home. They have a child. They have their own bedroom here and sleep together. 

Some may say I shouldn't allow them to sleep together without being married. Some say I shouldn't allow his finance to live here. Well, IMO, they are getting married and they are already a "family" with a child. They need support and help getting their lives started. I WILL definitely encourage them to stay together and be a "family", because they are the parent's of my gds, and ideally they will stay together. 

Kortlynia
by on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:52 AM
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If they're adults, moved out, and just visiting?   As long as it wasn't some one night stand, and they were in a real relationship, I wouldn't have an issue with it age wouldn't matter.

MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:53 AM
When they are married.
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by Platinum Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:54 AM
18 and a committed relationship.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:54 AM

Well lets see, since I slept with my last boyfriend every night for 3 years then I can't really tell my adult child they can't sleep with theirs. I really don't care of they want to sleep together when at my house. OF course, I don't have to worry about it yet, my son is only 7. lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:54 AM
Theyre adults. that choice is theirs.

its not lock preventing it at my house doesnt mean that they arent ever sharing a bed or having sex.
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