I have no sex drive. Never did. When we have sex I dont really feel anything but pressure. No real enjoyment - and yes weve tried tons of toys, porn, books, positions...etc. Anyway - I always had sex when him when he wanted it. This week I was just done - I dont want sex. I told him that I dont feel anything - I actually hate it. And for 16 years I have had sex with him whenever he wanted...I said: Why cant we not have sex because thats what I want! I want no sex! Not a sexless marriage - just a few days without sex! So now hes accommodating but he is so pissed! And hes walking around in a bad mood and not looking at me.