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My dh is mad at me...sex related

Anonymous
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I have no sex drive. Never did. When we have sex I dont really feel anything but pressure. No real enjoyment - and yes weve tried tons of toys, porn, books, positions...etc. Anyway - I always had sex when him when he wanted it. This week I was just done - I dont want sex. I told him that I dont feel anything - I actually hate it. And for 16 years I have had sex with him whenever he wanted...I said: Why cant we not have sex because thats what I want! I want no sex! Not a sexless marriage - just a few days without sex! So now hes accommodating but he is so pissed! And hes walking around in a bad mood and not looking at me.
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:47 AM
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purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:48 AM

Well what do you expect? You created a spoiled brat so of course he is upset when you take his "toy" away. Is this the first you told him that you hate sex?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:49 AM
did you tell him no sex at all or just not as often? also, did you say it in a nice way? people get upset if they cant satisfy their partner, so they way you said it might be why he's upset too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:53 AM

Have you been faking it for 16 years? He's probably pissed because you didn't tell him the truth earlier.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:54 AM
Umm, of course hes pissed! You just told him you have felt nothing for 16 years. Thats a horrible thing to drop on someone. If the situation were reversed you'd feel pretty shitty.
PeaceLoveAndTea
by on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:56 AM

I am the same way. It's never really been fun. I just kinda do it because otherwise he gets cranky... kinda like what it seems like yours is doing, haha. Some men just think that if they like, we must like it, too. Did you ever pretend to be into it even when you're not, or do you just kinda let him do his business and then go about your way? Just curious.

bahamamama61
by Silver Member on Apr. 21, 2013 at 11:58 AM
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I know the feeling:) I don't ever want sex again:)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 12:37 PM
No...hes known.
Quoting purpleducky:

Well what do you expect? You created a spoiled brat so of course he is upset when you take his "toy" away. Is this the first you told him that you hate sex?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 12:39 PM
Both. I sometimes try to be into it...but it never works. I just end up getting tired of it and then say: ummm, are you done yet cause this is taking forever.
Quoting PeaceLoveAndTea:

I am the same way. It's never really been fun. I just kinda do it because otherwise he gets cranky... kinda like what it seems like yours is doing, haha. Some men just think that if they like, we must like it, too. Did you ever pretend to be into it even when you're not, or do you just kinda let him do his business and then go about your way? Just curious.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2013 at 12:41 PM
No - hes known. Hes always known.
Quoting Anonymous:

Umm, of course hes pissed! You just told him you have felt nothing for 16 years. Thats a horrible thing to drop on someone. If the situation were reversed you'd feel pretty shitty.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Apr. 21, 2013 at 12:42 PM
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I have a low sex drive but I don't mind whoring myself out to my dh lol. Yesterday a bj bought me a clean kitchen. Sex gets him out if a bad mood and he sucks the energy out of a room when he's in a bad mood.
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