I completly cut contact with my ex (father of my dd) I changed my phone number and planning on moving in around a month to start a fresh new life. Reason: because he doesnt do shit to help with dd, (shes 2months by the way), he doesnt pay no bills, no food for her, no clothes, and when he comes to visit her (i accepted since he was the father) he doesnt help at all! Its like i have a second baby to take care of! All he does is complain how im not doing a good job blablabla but i mean really how about you get you ass up and show me what you can do? ... Ive been with him 5years , the last 2years he was abusive but when i was pregnant he relaxed himself.. Maybe he changed but he didnt give a shit about my back pain or nothing and would tell me to get up or give him sex. Wtf. Since my dd is born we broke up. (I was scared too) but he made it easy because he showed no interest. He uses my dd to manipulate me and im sick of it. I know he wont let go of me because thats how abusive people are. I talked to him 2hours ago and i told him he should start helping if he wanted to see his dd again. And then i nicely asked him to give back the money i LOANED him and he doesnt want to give it back so i said fuck it he is just making me sink more and more in my life so i blocked his number and changed my number as well. He will probaly come to my place but i dont count on anwsering the door. And i have plans on moving in a month or two. Start a new life just me and my dd. plus my dd deserves better. Ps: i have 100% custody since he didnt want his name on the birth cetificate so too bad for him. I plan on not seeing him again in my life because i know he will never change so whats the use. He is just ruining my life and putting me in debt and exhausting me. Was I wrong to do this?