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How do I tell DH that I'm having a miscarriage when we didn't even know I was pregnant?

Anonymous
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We had been ttc.
We stopped trying two months ago for personal reasons.

I started bleeding heavy last night.
Today it was worse. I was soaking through tampons and pad (I tried both)

So I went to the doctor.

And I am having a miscarriage.

DH is out of town until Thursday, he'll be home thursday morning.


And I'm at a complete loss at how to talk to him about this......
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:25 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:27 PM
Just talk to him... I've never had a miscarraige so I don't know what you're going through (((hugs)))
brookegregory
by Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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just call him and be like baby I had to go to the doctor cuz I was bleeding really really bad, and the doctor said I was prego and im having a miscarriage :( ... im so so so sry for your lost :(
Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:30 PM
You just tell him. He is your support, your best friend, right?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:31 PM

loss*

Quoting brookegregory:

just call him and be like baby I had to go to the doctor cuz I was bleeding really really bad, and the doctor said I was prego and im having a miscarriage :( ... im so so so sry for your lost :(


CryMAd
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:32 PM

How about this, "Honey, I'm having a miscarriage!" Everything else will come together after that.  I'd call my man ASAP.

hugs

MillyGMom
by on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:32 PM

My husband and I were attended separate colleges when I had a miscarriage. I happened to find out while I was visiting him. I do not know how I would have told him the news had he not been there. I am so sorry :(

angevil53
by Platinum Member on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM
I just told my ex. He was like huh...ok.
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mamadrama15
by Vmama on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM
:( sorry mama just tell him. *big hugs to you*
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM


loss*

Quoting Anonymous:

lose*

Quoting brookegregory:

just call him and be like baby I had to go to the doctor cuz I was bleeding really really bad, and the doctor said I was prego and im having a miscarriage :( ... im so so so sry for your lost :(




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 22, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Uh if you happen to be 16 that's how the conversation might go ....


Quoting brookegregory:

just call him and be like baby I had to go to the doctor cuz I was bleeding really really bad, and the doctor said I was prego and im having a miscarriage :( ... im so so so sry for your lost :(

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