Would you say something? Exhusband looking at adult content around dd
Today, my 11yo dd was looking at some of my FB pics with me. Out of the blue, she mentions that what is on her dad's FB page is gross. Now, her dad and I aren't fb friends but I have seen his page. It's nothing but those semi porn pages where the guys are saying dirty things to women. The women post almost nude pics, etc.
I asked dd how she saw his page since she doesn't have access to fb nor has she shown an interest in it.
She told me he has it up when she visits or will get on it when she is there. He has a very small place so the computer sits right next to the TV. DD also said he will get up and walk away, leaving it up so she can't help but see it. Exhusband has no gf or wife and basically hasn't since we divorced 10 years ago.
My younger kids were right there so we could not really talk about it, then, but she looked really grossed out, talking about it.
My first instinct is to flip out. He and I have an okay relationship. He isn't really a parent but he pays his career and sees DD a few times a month.
What would you do? Mention it? Ignore it? Get a bull whip? Lol