You answer the phone and the person on the other end asks for your husband. The person uses your dh's first and last name.
Do you ask who is calling and try to find out as much info as you can or do you just pass the phone to your husband?
Do you get upset when the caller won't tell you why they want to speak to your dh?
I work in a claims department for the company I work for. 9 times out of 10 when a wife answers the phone and I ask for her husband she will say "this is his wife speaking, can I help you" I respond with " if you could give him this message and ask him to call me back that would be great help" she says "well what is this about"
The thing is, if the husband has not given authorization for us to speak to the wife, we simply can't tell her what it is about. And let me tell you, wives do not like that!