All was going perfectly with us until she started trying to get him back. We have talked about it, and i told him i will accept whatever choice he makes, but i do not think it is a good idea. From what i have heard from him, his family, and his friends, she was awful. They fought all the time, a couple times she started getting physical. Even when they are on the phone he always ends up mad and raises his voice. We are not like that at all. He says he feels she deserves a second chance because she's keeping her job.,and she's back on her meds. But even as he says this he seems unhappy.
I have pointed everything out to him, so to make sure he is thinking this through. The other night he came home and said he thinks he is going to give her the chance. He again, seemed sad and unhappy. We talked about it more, and i told him i think he needs to give it more than a couple days to think about this because it is a very big decision. He left for his second job, and when he got home in the morning he crawled in bed and kissed me and cuddled like he normally does but had not done in a couple days.
Since then, that was two days ago, he has decided to give it more though, and has been acting a bit more like his happy lovey self. I don't know if that means he is seeing how happy he has been with me, or what.
Now my problem is, if he does give her a second chance, she will be moving back in here. I will have to leave. My two year old and i will be homeless. I know if i go to the welfare office they can help me, either place us in a shelter, or a hotel. I feel this will be hard for my two year old, but there's still another three or four months before i can get that apartment.
I don't know if i should just go ahead and do that now, just to be sure, or if i should wait until he makes his choice, because if he does chose to stay with me then obviously living here would be better for my two year old. But if he doesn't chose me, i will have to go get placed anyways.
Any advice? What would you do?
I am mobile, so sorry if theres any typos or anything. I tried to break it up the best i could.