I have a friend that I told her to seriously think about keeping the child before she was born. Every time she mentioned the pending adoption she would literally say I don't want to do it. When asked why "Well (insert jack ass of a boyfriend) said that if I don't then he will leave me. I can't take care of this baby on my own." If you tried to tell her different she wouldn't believe you. I told her one day that she needed to have a heart to heart with herself before the baby was born. She never did. After the baby was born the above jack ass left any ways for another girl. Which sent said friend into super depression mode. She was hated herself for giving up her child who she still loved with all her heart. I tried to be a good friend and be there for her. Well it is an open adoption and she thought she had a great relationship with the brith parents until this last weekend. This past weekend the birth parents pretty much told her that they want to close the adoption. Now this person is trying to find a way to get her daughter back. I don't know how she plans on it but it makes me fear for my friend. I want to be supportive of her because I know all this is killing her but now I don't really know how to be there for her in this situation. I have tried to comfort her. I have listened to her vent. I guess just continue on with that. I just wish there was a way to help her. Not get her daughter back but make sure she knows that I am here for her I guess.