I've gotten to the point in my relationship where I just can't take it anymore, I'm not happy, we're always arguing and bickering about something, we were going to try counseling but I just don't have the energy to try anymore. I'm so emotionally and physically drained I just have no more energy in me to try and make our relationship work, we've tried for so long and it only gets worse and more painful. The problem.. we have a baby together. My SO's mother came over to our house this morning and told me "You don't have an option, you two decided to get together, you decided to have a child, now you need to suck it up and stick together until she's 18. Then, if you want, you can go your seperate ways and live your life"
I honestly don't think that it's in the best interest of children to stay in a household where the parents can't get along and aren't happy, why do they need to be around tension and yelling all the time?
So, now I have to decide.. Do I just suck it up and be misreable, and stay in a horrible relationship, just so my daughter can have her mother and father under the same roof?
Do we keep the baby in this house, and I stay here during the week with her, and he comes to stay with her on the weekends (and we'd go stay with family or friends when we're not at home)
Or do I just move out and find a new place?
I want to do whats best for my child, but do I sacrifice my happiness in the process??