Ok so I am sure that I personally do not want any more children. I have an almost 7 year old and I am working on making my career and personal goals happen to make a better life for my son and I. I am a single mother and I am ok with that. I suck at relationships and I am honestly terrified of commitment. I am a very observant person and most of what I see in relationships is bitter people engaged in pointless drama and every relationship I've ever been in was a total fail and waste of time. Maybe that would change if I met the right person, maybe not. Maybe it just isn't meant to be for me...I just don't see it in my future. Taking all that into consideration, I want to get a tubal ligation, but after talking to a few friends today, 2 women and 2 men, I am having doubts. What if I was to meet Mr. Wonderful years down the road and regret not being able to have his child? What if he leaves me because he resents me for having my own kid, but not be able to have his? I know worrying about some future person who may never come to fruition is kind of silly, but this is a big decision. Thoughts? Advice? What are your personal experiences? Help!!
on Apr. 25, 2013 at 9:45 PM