I'm currently 10 & 1/2 weeks pregnant with my second child, My first is 12 months old im not with her father because he was sleeping around after she was born. I started seeing another man in Feb and we did use protection but it failed. The guy wanted me to have an abortion but i couldnt go through with it (we are both ok with it now how ever he is moving away so he wont be around) When i told my dad i was pregnant him and his wife apparently sat down and decided they were going to take on my baby, um excuse me? I didnt want to adopt the baby out so why would i give the baby away to them? His wife has a 10 year old to a previous relationship but couldnt have anymore kids after he was born (she cant carry them very well and miscarrys) My dad is 61 and his wife is 48. It blows my mind why my dad would even push the issue to give up my baby, He constantly asks me if i have changed my mind and its driving me crazy! I want my baby, it took a bit to sink in that i was going to have another baby so soon but now i am used to the idea and am excited, He wont take no for an answer and its frustrating. Hes to old to take on a new baby! He also adopted 2 children from Samoa (2 girls 11 and 16) and sent the 16 year old back because she wasnt behaving. How do i tell him to leave me alone in a nice way? its getting to the point where i am going to scream at him, i tell him im keeping the baby and a few days later he brings it up again. Its MY baby!